Thas is the hardest thing according to me. ini udah satu tahun lebih berlalu but I never can move on and clearly forget all of my old story with my ex-boyf. Aku ga tau kenapa. Its seems like I’m too stupid? Yes I guess..
Tapi itulah kenyataannyaa. Ada banyak hal yang mungkin jadi penyebabnya. Salah satunya, I have too many moments with him. And it can’t be erased as easy as I think. When I walked and decided to forget our story, someone come and force me to remember that again and again. I’ve tried many ways. Include, finding someone new. Itu hampir berhasil awalnya but it’s fail in the end. Setelah mencoba cara yang sama berkali-kali, at least I get the answer. Kalau ternyata, melupakan seseorang dengan melampiaskannya ke org lain, IT’S NEVER SUCCESS.
Karena sadar atau tidak, kita pasti akan membandingkan dia yg baru dengan dia yg lama. So what is the true way? I have some answers..
- Let your soul closer to God and pray to God when you feel everything.
You know what? God is stronger more than everything. God is always there to help you more than people who just promise that always beside us. Tapi nyatanya? Mereka akan meninggalkan kita and become the worse listener ketika mereka juga punya masalah. But God? God always be a good listener for us whenever and wherever we are. So just pray to God and ask, “please give me the best. If forget him is best for my life just let me do it. But if it’s not. Show me the reason why.”
- Don’t ever try to forget him just let it run seperti seharusnya.
Why I say like that? Guys, ketika kita mencoba melupakan sesuatu hal yg mgkn pada dsrnya we don’t need to forget itu sama aja menyiksa diri dan membuang-buang waktu. jika kita berhasil melupakannya pun, Itu hanya sementara. So, how the ways? Cukup biarkan semuanya berjalan apa adanya dan ubah cara pandang kita. Mungkin dulunya kita menganggap dia someone special, but now ubah cara pandang kita dan anggap he is him. Nothing special.
- Open your heart and find someone new when your heart READY.
This is the last point. Silahkan buka hati kamu dan cari seseorang special yang baru. Tapi itu akan berhasil jika kita melakukannya disaat our heart is 100% ready to put someone special again. Kalau belum siap dan masih ada bayang-bayang si dia yg lalu, STOP IT. Don’t do it. Karena itu Cuma akan membuat kita membandingkan dia dgn yang duluu. Dan akhirnyaaaa , we never can forget him.
Yaah itulah a little bit suggestion that I can share. I’m in processing to do it. Haha but I’m sure that I can move on. If I can, why you don’t? lets continue our storylife. There are so many another story that have been waited for us. anyway, lets find them :)
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